But when the youth tell their own stories, they speak volumes:

• "I learned how to be open-minded and how to interact with different communities. I've become a stronger individual." — DeShaun, Youth Member
• "I am writing this letter from SUNY Purchase, where I am now a second year Women's Studies major. I am often asked what life was like at Hetrick-Martin, and I say, 'Picture the most supportive and caring place, throw in the most unique and wholly selfless people, with the most courageous kids.' [Hetrick-Martin] helped me find a place to live; they helped me find a better way to live." — Yours in Solidarity and Gratitude, Arthur
• "I can honestly say that without the Harvey Milk School, I would not have gotten my high school diploma, and I might very well never have dealt with my own sexual identity. Since HMS, I have graduated from Sarah Lawrence College and done HIV prevention work with gay and lesbian youth. Now, I am finishing my first semester of law school at the University of Pennsylvania." Thank you, David
• "Talking with the Hetrick-Martin staff people was the first time I felt comfortable about my sexuality and myself. I call this moment the opening of my closet, coming out to myself. I now work for The Lesbian and Gay Community Services Center of Orange County, California, coordinating a drop-in center targeting at-risk youth. Knowing I could be the first person who makes a youth feel comfortable about their sexuality or gender identity is what makes my job worthwhile. Thank you for everything you have done for me." Sincerely, Rick B.